Friday, February 4, 2011

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

Love is indeed a tough business and it's very hard to make a girl fall in love with you. Love is much more intense and involves deep feelings and emotions. Girls normally tend to be highly demanding when it comes to the issue of love. Girls are always looking for that perfect one who would love her and keep her happy for the rest of her life. You can make a girl fall in love with you if you become all that she desires and wants in a man. There are plenty of rules and advice for getting a girl to fall in love with you. Methods to make a girl fall in love with you :

   1. Open your eyes and look around. Women are everywhere and many women are looking to fall in love. Don't get hung up on having one particular girl fall in love with you - maybe the feelings just aren't there! Your chances of making a girl fall in love are better if you get to know more girls, and give their love a chance to blossom, than if you try to "force" love on a girl who just isn't feeling it.
   2. Try to Catch her attention. If you’re already dating, then you’ve already done this. If not, then asking her out is the first step. Get to know her, and let her know a little about you. Flaunt your assets, whether you are the star of the basketball team, have a great sense of humor, or are the smartest guy in the class.
   3. Appeal right to her heart. Yes we all know there is a big connection between heart and love therefore the best way to make a girl fall in love with you is to appeal right to her heart. Now by this it means appeal to her emotions and get her to involve her emotions
   4. Compliment her when she does something smart or kind; it's important that she sees that you appreciate her positive traits. Don't overuse compliments though! Compliment her too much and she'll suspect you're trying to sweet talk her.
   5. Make the girl feel special because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
   6. In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.
   7. Gain her trust. You don't necessarily have to be her best friend, but do be a friend. Let her talk about her feelings with you, and in return try to do the same. Respect and support her when she's opening up to you emotionally.
   8. A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope.
   9. Be stable. Girls need to know that you can deal with them. In part this depends on your age; if you’re old enough, you should have a job, a car, or a home of your own. Otherwise, you just need to show her that you won’t dump her once you get bored. Stand by her when she’s going through tough times, and be her shoulder to cry on.
  10.  Be patient. Even if you think it was “love at first sight,” it might take longer for her to realize that she loves you. Be patient and take things slowly. Don’t rush the relationship too quickly or she may not want to continue it.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

How to Impress a Girl You just Met

In this post, we will talk about to impress a girl you just met. So, let's start with basic fundaes.First, the art of conversation, it is a complex skill that is quite important, especially in the case of meeting a girl you're interested in. While there are many tricks to breaking the ice and starting a meaningful chat. Confidence and a relaxed, casual attitude are keys to a effective interaction.

    * When you just meet a girl, start casually with basic introductory information. Offer your hand to shake and say, "Hi, My name is _____.", "By the way, I'm _____." Next, say something by way of explanation about why you're in the current setting, if it's relevant, such as say, at a party, "I'm a friend of so-and-so's. We work together."
      After introducing yourself, keep trying to break the ice by commenting on current surroundings or goings-on. This might mean something as simple as talking about the weather or commenting on any music you might be listening to or food you're eating. If you're in a public setting, you might comment on the decor at a restaurant if it's noteworthy, or you might recommend a drink that the current bartender is particularly good at making.
    * Once you've broken the ice, you just start talking in that way that will help you truly start getting to know this girl like ask her questions about herself. , but not about subjects like ex-boyfriends (unless she brings it up and is casual about the subject). You can start with questions like where she's from and how long she's lived in the area and what she does for a living. Try to let the conversation flow through topics. Try to look for things you have in common, also try to invite her to talk about herself whenever possible.
    * While you have given chance to her to talk about herself a lot, then you should talk about yourself as well. Volunteer information about yourself to echo the details she's sharing about her life if she seems interested. Try to let her take up slightly more than half of the conversation and talk about areas of your life, opinions and interests that you have in common.
    * After all of these conversation, you can move into expressing interest in pursuing her company further. You can either ask her directly or find an excuse to talk to her to get together at a later date, such as a business- or hobby-related meeting, or you can ask her directly to accompany you on a casual get-together, either one-on-one or as friends. This will lay the groundwork for more meaningful conversation the next time you see her.
    * Pay attention to your looks also. You do not have to be exceptionally handsome but knowing how to dress well and carry yourself counts if you want to impress the girl of your dreams. Ask a female friend with your looks. You don't have to wear expensive clothing but wear something in the that style that match your identity and give some attention to your hair and keep a nice haircut that fits your personality. Practice good hygiene and always appear clean and fresh.

How to Impress Girls at a Bar or Nightclub

Bar or Night club means music is thumping, the club is bouncing, and so are the beautiful girls moving on the dance floor and leaning over the bar. The very thought is enough to give many men the cold sweats as anxiety builds, romantic and performance anxiety being frequent in situations that demand a one-on-one interaction with a beautiful stranger.
Now let's talk about how to pick up and impress girls in the club, for this, you need to follow few simple steps:

    *  You just approach girls as casually and relaxed as possible. You do not want to appear as though she is just another piece of meat, but you also do not want to give her the impression you are a boring person as well. One of the easiest ways to get a woman in a night club interested in you is to buy her a drink. You can also ask her to dance with you, or you can use funny approach of telling her a funny joke.
    * Women in general like men who are fun, outgoing, and at least somewhat physically attractive. Attracting attention to yourself in a night club is a great way to get noticed by girls.Wear clothes that are different and fashionable. Women love guys who dress nice, and if your clothes can attract attention to you, it'll make your job of meeting women easier.
    * You have main choice to draw attention to yourself is a non-verbal way. Remember, you're dealing with a place that's loud and poorly lit, so you should have a confident attitude with the right body language, because that's primarily how you can communicate in a situation like that.Walk with a swagger. Make strong eye contact. Be flirty - smile, wink, and nod. Having an outgoing attitude will help you to attract attention.
    * Trying to talk to a woman in a noisy club is an exercise in futility. Instead of long talk, take her by the hand. You can walk her outside to the patio, or anywhere more quiet, for that matter. Taking her to the dance floor is good too.
    * Don't spend too much time with any one girl.You might find a girl you like and want to hang around with her.Make the rounds - dance and talk to lots of girls, and come back to the girl you like. Don't worry, she's not going anywhere. Just remember these magic words when you do this: "I'll be right back!"

How to Get a Date

Attraction between men and women is complex yet simple. It is complex because our left brain male logic makes a simple concept hard!. Getting a date with a girl is intimidating for many people but it is even more intimidating when the girl is very attractive. Here is how to get a date with a pretty girl.

Go where people are. If you don't already have a girl in mind scout around and find a girl you are interested in asking out.That sounds simplistic, but to get a date, one obviously has to be around other people in various places including: school, library, museum, mall, restaurant, club, sporting event, service organization, party, and so on.
Get to know them. Once you have a pretty girl in mind approach her and start a conversation with her. Get to know her as much as you can and find out what kinds of things she is interested in.
Be fun and interactive and flirty . Constantly tease her and make fun of the situation she is in. Show her that you are a higher status male. Do not go into anything deep and meaningful. Do not go anywhere close to being emotional. What you want to do is let her experience emotions, not talk about it.
Invite her out casually . After you meet the girl or women, instead of asking her out on a date. Let her know that you want things much more fun and casual. Just say to her "hey let's go hang out, I'm bored and you can come and entertain me". Do not make the "get together" or "date" the focus of the conversation. This will come off as if you need something from her and you will immediately be less attractive. By making it less "formal" you put less focus on the outcome so the "date" has less pressure for either party to "impress one another".
Pop the question. If you talk enough and become good friends with them, then they'll be more interested in you than if you didn't talk to them at all. Then, say something like "Well, I really would like to get to know you. You seem like a really interesting person, so I was wondering if you'd like to go to the movies on Friday night?" This is simply a guideline but you should actually have something worked out to say so you don't fumble for the words.

How to Impress a Beautiful Girl Out of Your League

Impressing girls is one of the most time-honored traditions for young men. And, the ability to impress a girl who is out of one's league is not an easy task, but it is an art form that can be learned with a bit of patience.To win over a girl that is clearly out of your league is another task in and of yourself. What's going to make you stand out from all the other guys? Chances are that if she's out of your league, there are many others that are trying to woo her as well. So how can you be sure that you can win her over and ensure that this amazing woman becomes yours and only yours.

   1. Have Something to Show . If she’s that amazing then chances are that she’s heard every pick up line from every kind of guy out there. Don’t be just another guy—have something to actually show for yourself! If you really want to “wow” her, have something in mind to discuss when you approach her. Rather than standing there like a bumbling idiot or pulling out some pick up line from like ten years ago, have something of significance to say and make it count. Stand there and show her what you’re made of!.
   2. Calm, Cool, and Collected Works Every Time. Be cool, calm and assured. Girls like guys who seem at ease with themselves. One thing all girls hate is guys who are embarrassingly needy. So, try to remain reserved and calm while showing her your interest. If she is pretty and popular, she will appreciate the fact that you don't run around trying to impress her.
   3. Develop an excellent sense of humor. Beautiful girls don't look around and see faces as attractive as their own - they see YOUR face and others like it. But they DO appreciate someone who makes them laugh. Be optimistic and cheerful.
   4. Don't Act like you need her. It’s fine to approach a girl like this, but if you act like you need her too much that will result in an instant turn off. Never ever act dependent on a girl or as if your conversation is completely contingent upon her response. Don’t hang on her every word and don’t act as if you’re holding your breath in eager anticipation the whole time. Being overly anxious, expecting too much, or acting like you are dependent upon this girl noticing you are total “no no’s”. If she even suspects that you are into her more than she is in to you, then the deal is off. Remember this as you approach her and especially if you are lucky enough to strike up a conversation with her.
   5. Get close. Hang out near her and listen to what the girl and her friends are saying. (Don't make it a dead giveaway that you're listening.) Then approach them and say, "I couldn't help over hearing BLAH BLAH BLAH". It should go naturally; if not then perhaps you should rethink this girl. Chemistry matters!
   6. Be yourself. Every woman values honesty. You don't have to be a superhero to get a gorgeous woman's attention. The truth is, all women are just searching for that man who is not afraid to be who he really is. It's a real turn-on.
   7. Share music, funny stories and cool websites with the girl. One way of cooly showing your interest in a girl who's a bit out of your league is to send her short text messages or e-mails with MP3 downloads of favorite tunes or jokes you've heard. This is an innocuous way of showing interest without appearing obsessive.
   8. No lame pick up lines. Don't be just another jerk who tries to snag a gorgeous woman with a lame pick up line.Gorgeous women are tired of comments regarding their curves or breasts or what you'd like to do to them. Contrary to what you see in porn movies, girls do not fall for these dumb lines.Be honest about your interest in her and make sure it's not only because of her looks. Let her know you want to learn more about her and her interests.

How to Use Body Language Effectively to Impress a Girl

Lets talk about body language, and how it is connected to your attitude and confidence. We all know, that people communicate with each other on multiple levels. Words what we say, is just small part of our communication when we communicate, the majority of communication is done with body language, vocal tones, vocal pitch, movement, and gestures. When I say body language, I mean: pitch of voice, tonality, speed, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, having eye contact, how fast you move (hands… etc), shoulders, chest... You may ask why body language is so important. First, because it is how we sub-communicate with others.

Lets take a look what are most common mistakes are when somebody tries to pick up a girl:
• Talking too fast (to say as much things in shortest period of time)
• Talking too much (to hide your inner state (uncomfortable))
• Not knowing what to say next
• Drinking (too become comfortable)
• Asking too many questions (you want to create rapport too soon, as she doesn’t wants you at all) she knows its cause just the way she looks
• Body language wrong (hands connected, foots too close, shoulders down, leaning in)
• Buying her drinks (trying to impress her, or even worst, get her drunk)
• Not being comfortable talking with strangers.

Let’s correct above body language, here is list of things that you should fix …
• Keep hands out of pockets.
• Stand with feet wider apart. (Not This II but more like this I I)
• Don't swing around with your hands when you walk.
• Never look at the floor (down) when you walk (look above horizon)
• Expose your chest
• Shoulders up (in relaxed way)
• When you walk, walk slowly, bigger steps, but slow.
• Use lot of space no matter where you are, because it radiates with confidence...
• Don't dress in too many dark colors (just when you want to contrast with something).
• Don't be afraid to go into people’s personal space. Personal space is society bull. It doesn't exist!! If you if give a , its going to exist -- otherwise it won’t!
• Always lean out… trust me, when you lean out, people around you will start to lean in to hear you.
• Touch people when you talk with them (non-sexual) because you must create conversation on all levels! Not just verbal.
• All your body language must be in same speed. That means you can’t walk slowly, move with confidence, and then talk fast, like Bart Simpson!!
• It must be at the same speed, otherwise they will tell you that you are 'trying to be cool'.

How to Impress a girl With Your Intelligence

Ever wanted to make people think you're terribly smart, but don't want to go through the long, drawn-out effort of actually working on yourself intellectually so that you can gain a better understanding of life? Want to remain as mentally lazy as possible, while still keeping the appearance (to those who will fall for it) that you have great wisdom?
Here we have some ways to do it.:

Choose a small area in which to become an expert. Be sure to learn all the vocabulary and buzzwords associated with your topic. If you like cars, know what a V-8 engine is, for example.There's no better substitute for actual understanding than the memorization of random, undigested facts, so fire up that Wikipedia!

Read books and magazines about this topic.Use words that are not only long and hard to pronounce, but also ridiculously obscure so that someone would probably have to look through two or three different dictionaries to find one that had a heading for it.
Find other people who like this area too, and spend time with these people. The conversation will inevitably lead to your favorite topic, and you will therefore learn even more about it.A good way to find others interested in your topic is to join a club. If birdwatching is your thing, start going on those Saturday morning hikes you have read about in the paper.Argue with people a lot and be adamant about what you say even if you don't know what you're talking about.

Watch the news, especially political opinion pieces, and repeat things that they say to people.
As if it's your own opinion. Obviously, you can't rely on your own judgment because, as highlighted in number 3, you're not supposed to know what you're talking about, so just borrow someone else's! Usually people on TV are smart, otherwise they wouldn't be on TV, right? You can probably trust them to be right about everything.

When you are with the person you are trying to impress, steer the conversation over to your area of expertise every once in awhile. The more you know, the more impressive you are going to be. Never try to impress anybody with a topic on which you know very little. You might end up with embarrassment if the person you are talking to knows more than you do and correct you when you went wrong with any of the information.

Tell people you're related to a well-known genius. Nothing like genetics to seal the deal. Many people have some sort of ingrained belief that genes are largely responsible for a person's intelligence, so tell them you're the great-great-great-great-etc grandnephew of Leonard da Vinci or something.